Mom who went viral for saying she doesn’t buy her kids Christmas gifts explains why

By Fiona Jackson via SWNS

A mom-of-eight has told how she doesn't buy her kids ANY Christmas gifts - but they have never been happier.

Angie Wipf, 35, found herself buying upwards of 40 gifts every Christmas until she decided to limit her kids to one present each - that they have to get for each other.

The decluttering coach and social media influencer shared her unique tradition online, and got a mixed response, with some declaring her "cold."

She said she saves $700 (£514) every year since she decided to stop buying gifts for
Finley, 10, Macklin, eight, Vivian, seven, Cruze, five, Cedar, four, twins Wilder and Stryker, three, and Hawk, one.

Angie said: "I just noticed that when they would open a lot of presents they only noticed the one they really wanted and forget about the rest.

"They would forget about the stuff and not care about it, and it was kind of disappointing to see that.

"I think it's taken stress away from kids, they’d be so overwhelmed with stuff they wouldn’t know what to do."

The thrifty parent likes to spend what she saves on family trips out to the museum or zoo throughout the rest of the year.

She added: "We spend more time having experiences rather than stuff.

"I think as an adult I think you remember more the things you did rather than what you got."

Angie, from Alberta, Canada, decided to make the change in December 2019.

The holiday season also comes on top of multiple birthdays that top and tail that time of year.

Four-year-old Cedar's birthday is December 23rd, Cruze, five, and Finley's, ten, are in October, and Macklin's, eight, in January.

"That spurred on the change too," said Angie.

"We work hard to make sure birthdays are separate from Christmas so we can focus on their birthday.

"I found they were getting so overwhelmed, all these gifts all the time."

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Her new plan was to get each child to draw a name of one of their siblings out of a hat, and they would be in charge of picking out their single Christmas gift.

When she announced the new plan to her band of eight under ten's, she was surprised at how positively it was received.

She said: "They like it, they remind me it's time to draw the names.

"I found they enjoy what they get more because they’ll talk to their siblings throughout the year about what they like.

"I think they realized they still get presents from grandparents and all that, they’re definitely not deprived that’s for sure!"

Angie or her husband Paul, 39, will sit down with one of the kids and scroll through Amazon to help them find the perfect present online, but in the future this will transition to physical shopping trips.

She said: "I keep track of who has what, I don’t make them rely on that right now,

"They’ll think about what siblings they have and go ‘oh search this’ and ‘I know that’s what they like best as that’s what they play with.'"

This has reduced the Wipf's Christmas spend to about $75, and while they still are buying the presents, they hope their children will contribute to the cost a bit when they're older.

"We're just getting them into the mentality of buying something for someone else or making something.

"As they get older they’ll all be teenagers at the same time, they might have jobs, they might want to contribute more."

Angie is also done with wrapping paper and gives each child a white sack on Christmas Eve that they can decorate with washable fabric pens.

Their 'Secret Santa' will put their gift in their sack the night before - and try and keep their secret until then.

She said: "Wrapping takes no time and everything fits nicely.

"It creates memories; each year they're like 'why did I draw that?'"

On the big day, Angie has found her gaggle of eight really look forward to getting their one special and thoughtful gift from their brother or sister.

"They're not super overwhelmed and can get straight into playing with their stuff," she said

They spend the rest of the day doing things together, like making cookies, going to see Christmas light displays or watching festive films.

Angie made a video talking about her unique ideas and posted it on her minimalism Instagram, @calmingthechaos, where she got mixed reviews.

One comment said: "That’s just cold let them be kids and have some joy."

Angie responded: "Apparently lots of people have seen it and not everyone agrees!

"Most of them are positive as we do experiences over things, but also ‘how can you not give your children gifts?’- obviously you didn’t read the post!

"When my kid needs something they still get it, if they need something for art or school we're going to make sure they get that stuff."

This isn't the only way Angie keeps the clutter down at Christmas time, as she also only buys one advent calendar which her kids take turns to open.

She added: "For decorating I make it very kid-friendly, the nativity scenes and stuff you can play with it, so that takes the stress away from having to protect my Christmas decorations.

"They're either toys or stuff that isn't breakable and can be moved around and enjoyed.

"I can't cut the Christmas things because my kids all love Christmas, so I just embraced it."