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Mom began potty training daughter when she was only 8 weeks old

The elimination communication method is based on the idea that babies will naturally sign when they need to go to the bathroom.



By Ben Barry via SWNS

A mom began potty training her baby at just eight weeks - like comedian Katherine Ryan - and hailed the breakthrough "a miracle."

Alexis Abdelaziz, 26, skipped the potty and started toilet training her tot, Aya, now four months, after spotting other parents give it a go on social media.

The new mom said she saw other parents use "elimination communication" - based on the idea that babies will naturally sign when they need to go to the bathroom- before giving it a go with her daughter, Aya.

Alexis has been consistent in her potty training and says Aya can now signal when she needs to go - using sign language.

"I had seen parents try toilet training from a very young age even before I was pregnant and I always wanted to try it," said Alexis, a physical therapy assistant, from Rancho Cucamonga, California.

"When I got pregnant I had totally forgotten about it and then a couple of months after I had her I randomly remembered it and I started doing research and everything aligned with the method - it just made sense."

The elimination communication method is based on the idea that babies will naturally sign when they need to go to the bathroom.

Once parents have figured out their child's cue - this could be showing a card or making a symbol - parents can position them over a potty or toilet, make a sound and then the child will use the toilet.

Alexis said she was nervous when first trying out the technique as it could have been a waste of time.

Luckily, the first time Alexis tried it with Aya she used the toilet.

"Ever since then we have not stopped once, every day she gets more consistent with it and understands it better," she said.

"Aya will be turning five months old on September 19 and for the first time around two weeks ago, she did sign language to me, without me asking her if she needed to go.

"Typically, I will ask her if she needs to go to the toilet and show her a card of a toilet and then I will take her to the toilet."

Alexis is also teaching her daughter sign language.

"There are a lot of benefits to children knowing how to communicate before they are verbally able," she said.

"Mainly, because they are available to demonstrate their needs and they are emotionally aware - meaning they are less likely they are to throw a tantrum or feel emotionally misunderstood.

"Obviously Aya isn't able to talk yet but she is able to understand and it can teach her how to use her voice."

Alexis said the techniques she is using to raise Aya are working out "really well" but said the key is consistency.

"If I am taking her to the toilet for a full day and not showing her the card or signing to her, I am sure it would throw it off her schedule and understanding, she said.

"Just because she is so little, consistency is the most important thing, I carry the card wherever we go and show it to her.

"The main thing I try to explain to people is it is not about diapers and my baby being potty trained before other babies - because a lot of people are asking about this and asking why I would even do this.

"She is so much more content and happier because babies sitting around in poop is something they do not enjoy - they cry, they scream and it smells and you can tell by how they are crying.

"But when Aya goes on the toilet she is smiling and content and after she is done on the toilet, she is so calm, there is no crying involved."

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