Meet the IT consultant turned professional dominatrix

By Emma Dunn via SWNS

Meet the IT consultant turned professional dominatrix - whose most bizarre request includes a client paying her £3k ($3,329) to submerge them in a bath of syrup.

Clarity Mills, 38, found the kink community empowering and became a professional dominatrix in 2007, running sessions in her spare time during the evenings and weekends.

The businesswoman - who is a swinger and polyamorous with her husband, Kieran - dominates her clients and explores their kinks.

She says her husband finds her work “hilarious” but is supportive of it.

Clarity uses real life goals in her play such as financial domination - and punishes or treats her clients depending on how they are doing on reaching their goals.

She rakes in up to £5k ($5,549) a month from her sessions, which can last up to six hours, but doesn’t want it to become her full time job as it would "take the enjoyment out of it."

“I find kinks and being a dominatrix empowering and it helped me overcome trauma," said Clarity, from Dublin, Ireland.

“My husband's not into kinks but he’s very supportive of me doing it.

“It’s not all whips and chains.

“I help people achieve their life goals.

“For example if someone wants to save for a mortgage, I’ll gamify it by rewarding them if they are doing well at moving towards that goal but punish them if not.

“One of my weirdest requests was submerging someone in a bath of treacle.

“He wanted the feeling of being consumed alive and paid me £3k to do it.

“I never want it to become ‘just a job’ so that’s why I keep it separate to the corporate world.”

Clarity became a professional dominatrix in 2007 and, despite being successful, she keeps the work as a side hustle and runs sessions in her evenings and weekends.

Her sessions incorporate lots of different styles of play such as sensory, bondage, humiliation and degradation - but Clarity is very selective with who she choses to work with.

“I meet people or couples for coffee like it’s a date and we’ll talk about what they want,” she said.

“Some people basically just want an escort and although I’m a sex worker I don’t have sex with people for money.”

Some of Clarity’s weirdest requests involve food.

“Some peoples kinks is ‘sploshing’ which is food sex but where it is sticky and usually has a bad smell," she said.

“I had a hazmat suit on when I submerged the guy who wanted to be in a bath of treacle.

“We didn’t submerge his head but he had a latex balloon device which gave the feeling of restricted breathing.

“He paid £3k and it was a big effort to achieve it.”

Clarity doesn’t do pegging herself but will teach spouses how to do it for their partners.

Clarity also runs and attends sex parties as part of her work.

“I just want people to experiment and have fun,” she said.