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Woman gets married 10 days after traumatic childbirth

"I wouldn't change it for the world."

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By Hannah Van De Peer via SWNS

A woman who got married 10 days after giving birth struggled to sit down or dance on the big day but has "no regrets."

Allie Svarc, 29, struggled for three years to conceive and went through four rounds of fertility treatment - three of IUI and one of IVF - before falling pregnant.

At the same time, Allie and her husband, 32, had to re-plan their wedding, after their initial date was canceled due to the pandemic.

They set a date two years in advance of their first date, but with just nine months to go, Allie was delighted to fall pregnant - with a due date just three weeks before the big day.

Just 10 days before the wedding, Allie went into labor and gave birth to a 9lbs boy, now 15 weeks, at the end of October 2022.

Her "traumatic" birth meant she couldn't sit down during her big day on November 5, 2022, and the exhausted new parents were both in bed at 10.30 pm.

Allie Svarc got married just 10 days after giving birth. (Charlotte Jopling via SWNS)

But Allie says their newborn was the "cutest addition to their guest list."

The social media manager from Nottingham, UK, said: "All three of us really enjoyed our day.

"On Feb. 14, I found out I was finally pregnant.

"But we quickly realized - our wedding was also nine months away.

"It'd been so long since our original date, we thought, f**k it, we've been waiting three years for this - and we didn't reschedule.

"Wedding planning - on top of baby planning and working a full-time job - was a lot of admin. It was stressful.

"But I wouldn't change it for the world.

"We’d wanted a baby since 2019 and in March 2019, we began trying.

"For nearly two years, nothing happened - and we had to accept the fact that we'd need to explore the possibility of fertility treatment."

After several unsuccessful rounds of IUI (intrauterine insemination) costing £4,000 ($4,800 USD) Allie and her partner had their first round of IVF in January 2022.

It worked and they were expecting by October 2022 - just three weeks away from their re-scheduled wedding.

“It wasn’t the wedding I’d initially planned - my friends threw me a joint hen do/baby shower - as two of my friends were also pregnant at the time," she said.

Allie went into labor in the early hours of October 23, 2022.

The birth was "traumatic" and she needed to have an episiotomy - a procedure in which a cut is made from the vagina to the anus - so the baby could be delivered safely on his side.

She needed several stitches and was unable to sit down for a month afterward.

"My confidence was really knocked on the day of the wedding," Allie said.

"I spent £2k on ASOS - buying my wedding dress, Spanx to go underneath, and dresses for the bridesmaids.

"I still had half a pregnancy belly, and huge boobs I had no idea what to do with.

"I couldn't sit down, I couldn't dance, and I was expressing. I was exhausted.

“The guests couldn’t get enough of my new son - he was passed from person-to-person all day.”

Despite feeling "exhausted" and "hormonal," Allie wouldn't have changed her wedding day for the world.

"It was the most insane day of my life, but it was so lovely," she said.

"My new husband and I ended up falling asleep at 10.30 pm.

"The adrenaline really got me through, and I really enjoyed it in the end."

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