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This woman orgasms in her sleep: ‘I really enjoy it’

She described the nocturnal orgasms as: "Way more intense than regular orgasms."

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By Hannah Van De Peer via SWNS

This woman orgasms while she sleeps and encourages others who do the same to "relax and enjoy them."

Marza Tovo, 43, says she experiences nocturnal orgasms - sexual arousal that occurs during sleep.

British TV presenter Davina McCall, 55, recently shared how she has also climaxed while sleeping - multiple times.

Marza can’t remember the first time she had an orgasm in her sleep, but she says she only started having them once she started having sex.

All her previous relationships had “been with guys," but Marza found her nocturnal orgasms only happened when she was having “hot dreams” about women.

She doesn’t like to label her sexuality and considers herself sexually fluid.

The “intense” orgasms don’t happen too frequently to Marza - but when they do, they’re “crazy and pulsating."

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She said the intensity of the sensations always wakes her up - but she's never had more than one in the same night, and they usually happen "a few times a year."

Marza, a sex, love and relationship coach, from Florianópolis, Brazil, said: “Nocturnal orgasms are way more intense than regular orgasms.

"You’ll be asleep, wondering if you’re lucid or dreaming, and you’ll just feel deep contractions in your pelvic floor.

“These always happen to me when I’m having hot dreams - usually, I’m exchanging touch with another woman, or other women.

“I believe you can tune into them, even if you’re asleep, and be fully aware that they’re happening.

"I think it's great that Davina is speaking out about nocturnal orgasms to make them seem more normal. I'm all for celebs speaking publicly about orgasms in general in order to normalize them.

"Nocturnal orgasms can really feel like a mystery sometimes, but try not to worry about it - just relax and enjoy them."

Marza didn’t even realize women could have nocturnal orgasms and says this was due to a lack of education about them.

“I think this is why my wet dreams involve women as well,” she said.

“My sexuality is more open to women because I was raised around so much slut shaming.

"I’d meet guys and they’d only want to have sex in their own way, on their terms.”

She admits nocturnal orgasms have undoubtedly affected her sex life - but she worries it could be in a bad way.

“I’m constantly comparing my nocturnal orgasms and the orgasms I have with a partner," she said.

“They’re just so much stronger during my sleep. I have really crazy nights thanks to nocturnal orgasms - they contract and pulsate, I really enjoy it.

“My advice to women everywhere would be not to feel ashamed.

"Just lie back and enjoy the ride.”

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